We’ve all been there: standing at a crossroads, unsure which path to take. It could be a big decision, like whether to switch careers, or a smaller one, like picking a vacation destination. The uncertainty can feel paralyzing. But here’s the thing—you don’t have to stay stuck, you really don’t. So, let’s talk about how to make a decision when you don’t know what to do.

First, let’s get real about what truly matters to you. To do that, you’ve got to tune into your values, your personal compass, and the principles that will guide you through life's twists and turns. Decide what’s most important to you. Is it freedom? Security? Growth? Creativity? Connection? When you’re clear on your values, making a decision becomes a lot easier because you’re aligning with what’s genuinely important to you. 

If you feel unsure because you don’t have enough information, do some research, ask experts, and talk to people who’ve been in your shoes. The more you know, the clearer things will get. Just remember not to drown yourself in too much information—there’s a sweet spot where you have enough to make an informed choice without getting overwhelmed or seeking a bulletproof answer. 

Don’t forget to use your internal GPS. Intuition is a powerful tool that harnesses all your past experiences and knowledge. If you’ve done your research and still feel a pull in a certain direction, listen to that. This is especially true with personal decisions, where data alone won’t tell the whole story.

Here’s a fun exercise (well, sort of): ask yourself, “What’s the worst that could happen?” Sometimes, just facing your fears head-on can make them seem less daunting. When you realize that even the worst-case scenario is something you can handle, it can give you the courage to move forward. 

If you’re still stuck, take a break. Go for a walk, meditate, or get a good night’s sleep. Distance can provide clarity, and you might find that the answer comes to you when you’re not actively thinking about it. Ever had a great idea in the shower? Same concept! 

You could also give yourself a deadline to make the decision. Indecision can drag on, but setting a time limit forces you to take action. Remember, not making a decision is a decision to stay stuck, and that’s not where you want to be. 

Find someone you trust and talk through your options. An outside perspective can be incredibly helpful. They might see something you’ve missed or offer the reassurance you need to move forward.

Once you’ve made your decision, own it. Commit and move forward with confidence. Second-guessing yourself will only keep you in a loop of indecision. Embrace your choice, and focus on making the best of it. And remember, most decisions aren’t set in stone; they’re only part of the journey. Every choice you make is a step forward, a chance to learn and grow. You can always adjust your course if things don't work as planned. 

So, take a deep breath, trust yourself, and make your move. You’ve got this!

 
Cheers to your expedition to self ~

Audrey